Mrs. Dalloway is an interesting play on gender roles. From the surface it seems like another story about aristocracy and the roles of women and men in society. Mrs. Dalloway seems like the typical housewife, wandering around aimlessly until she decides that she will “buy the flowers herself.” (1) She has servants and workers that do everything for her. She is charged with the difficult task of assigning them their duties. What shall she serve? What will the musicians play? How to set the table, what to offer as beverage, and so on and so on… Through the reading though, we see a more unique side to Clarissa. She is privileged. She does have a lot of money. She did choose social standing over passion, Richard over Peter. Through all of the aristocracy we are given a view of the woman of the house from the inside rather than the out. She has stresses within her life. Peter’s appearance offered a view of the constant worry and stress Clarissa lives with. She remains upset with herself over losing Peter. She repeats herself over and over when she asks him to “Please remember her party.” After three or four repetitions the tone turns from a plea to begging and almost crying in utter desperation.
Clarissa values throwing parties above almost everything. She ranks herself according to her abilities as a hostess. At the party she worries that people are not dancing, then is later comforted when more of a crowd begins to arrive and liven things a bit. The most rewarding thing that could happen to Clarissa as a hostess does; the Prime Minister makes an appearance. His appearance means Clarissa is a success in her book because she puts so much stock in being a hostess.
It is funny that the only times we see Clarissa in a negative light is when Peter is speaking. He sculpts her life as unfulfilling because she chose society over him. We are able to see his childish antics through his travels to India, affairs, and especially the time that he followed a young girl on her walk. He thought it fun and exciting. As a grown man he still flirts immaturely yet cannot understand why Clarissa chose Richard over him. Peter is a bit of a child and as pointed out in class similar to Peter Pan. He seems to have no drive to grow up and take full responsibility of being an adult and is nowhere near emotionally ready to settle down with a wife and children.
Elizabeth serves an important role of the new independent woman. Clarissa is the model of a woman stuck in the traditional role of the housewife, and hostess. Elizabeth begins to play with the idea of becoming independent, not like her mother. She is a young girl who is curious about the world outside of her home and her part of town. The omnibus was a way explore. The image of Elizabeth on the omnibus is very powerful for a few reasons. One, she is traveling the streets alone which was highly frowned upon during the time period. Two, she goes to a section of town that was not considered appropriate for young woman. Woman, especially at Elizabeth’s age were not to walk and travel alone.
Virginia Woolf’s ability to write an entire novel about one day in the life of Clarissa Dalloway was amazing. Time seemed to travel forward, backward, in slow motion, and even stand still for days.